Adults Are Sharing The Incredible Things Their Parents Did For Them As Kids That They Didn't Appreciate Until They Grew Up, And I'm Not Crying, You're Crying

Most of us never realize everything our parents did to make our childhoods special. From holiday traditions to family vacations, kids often take these special, wholesome things for granted. However, once we grow up, gain perspective, and perhaps even become parents ourselves, we can appreciate just how magical our childhoods truly were, all thanks to our parents...

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That's why when Redditor u/MisterRocCity asked, "What was something your parents did for you as a child that you didn't fully appreciate until you became an adult?" adults were more than happy to share the heartwarming ways their parents made their childhoods special. From secret science labs to parental chauffeurs— here are 19 of their sweetest memories:

If your parents did something special that made your childhood magical, feel free to tell us about it using this anonymous form!

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1."Beginning around age seven, I had an insatiable desire to write. I would write pages and ramblings almost every day, whether it was full accounts of my day, idealized accounts of my day, stories set in fantasy worlds, or long, dialogue-only scenes. I always gave them to my mom, and she would read them all the way through."

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2."My parents were adamant about not raising 'iPad kids' so we had very limited screen time. We could only use the family desktop if we wanted to play games. If we wanted to talk to friends, we had to use the landline. We could only watch TV a few hours a day after chores and school were finished."

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"We instead had lots of family time playing board games, building Legos, traveling the world, reading, doing outdoor activities, etc.

I've only had a cellphone for five years, and I feel like I’m not as attached to it as others my age."

—u/AKamDuckie

3."I had terrible menstrual cramps when I was in middle school. Every month I had to go to the school nurse, and she'd call my mom to come get me."

"No matter what mom was doing that day, she dropped everything to pick me up, take me home, and heat up tomato soup with a splash of milk. I'd get ginger ale and crackers, and the rest of the family was on the strictest orders to leave me alone!

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It was heaven, except for the pain."

—u/asap_pdq_wtf

4."My parents built a secret room in our house and filled it with lab supplies — rocks and minerals, a kaleidoscope, a magnifying glass, books, a microscope, a chemistry kit, and all other kinds of Tandy and Radio Shack stuff we got to discover on our own. Whenever we went into the room, there would always be something new."

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5."When I was sick, my parents would give me a little bell that I could ring if I needed something. Now I realize they were doing it so I didn’t have to yell for them if I had a sore throat or felt too sick. I never had to wait more than a minute for them to help me."

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"I do this for my own kids now! I think it’s so sweet and I hope my little ones remember it fondly one day."

—u/LastTie3457

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6."When I was in tenth grade, I had a difficult biology course. Both of my parents studied with me and made up songs for me to use as mnemonic devices."

"Now that I'm a parent, I know there's no way I could put that much effort into even one of my kids' classes — especially after working all day!

BTW, I did pass that class with flying colors and went on to take college biology in the summer because I felt super prepared and confident."

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—u/greytgreyatx

7."My parents worked hard to educate us outside of school hours: Taking trips to museums, teaching us to research things at the library, staying in historic hotels, going on nature hikes, camping trips, etc. My mom also ran two Girl Scout troops (one for me and one for my sister)."

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8."My parents pinched pennies on everything except for a big family vacation every summer. We had a 30+ year old kitchen, a small house, 20-year-old cars, shopped the sales, etc., so they could afford to take us traveling."

"Sure, my friends had bigger or nicer houses, but they never went to Hawaii for four weeks or hiked mountains in Oregon like I did.

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My parents thought traveling was the most valuable thing for us growing up, and I really appreciate that they did that for us."

—u/pidgeott0

9."My mom let me pick out my clothes, they were always within a reasonable budget and age-appropriate, but when we shopped for them, I got to pick what I wanted. I took it for granted that I should have that choice."

"Mom later told me that her own mother had either made or controlled every single thing she wore until she turned 18.

I got to have a 'horse girl' phase as a 9-year-old and my emo phase as a teenager, without a parent being unkind about it. I'm lucky that way."

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—u/thoughtsofstars

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10."My parents (specifically my dad) didn’t want me to have a job as a teenager, but all my friends were getting jobs and earning money, and I wanted to do the same."

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11."Starting in late elementary school, my mom let us decide if we were too sick to go to school. At the time, I hated it because on days when I'd wake up with a headache or a stuffy nose, I really just wanted her to give me the out and tell me I could stay home because I knew I was well enough to go in but didn't want to."

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"Instead, she'd ask, 'Are you too sick to go to school?' and let us make the call, knowing we'd feel too guilty staying home if it wasn't necessary.

Now, I'm grateful she did this because not only did it teach us responsibility, but it also helped me learn to monitor my own body and its needs. I know many adults who can't tell the difference between 'I feel gross but can go about my day,' 'I need to modify somewhat,' or 'I need to go to bed now!'"

—u/palacesofparagraphs

12."My parents took me to Disney when I was little. I’m nearly 50, single, with no kids, and the realization hit me last year. I started tearing up when I thought about it. I saw something on TV that showed lines at Disney, and I thought, 'Wow, there are a lot of parents who have to stand in those lines for rides. I'm glad it’s not me.'"

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"Then I thought about my parents: My mother would probably have preferred to be stabbed rather than go to Disney as she hates traveling, heat, humidity, and hotels. Yet she loaded up the car, bought snacks, and packed our suitcases. Meanwhile, my dad likes traveling, but to places like Europe. He had a high-powered job, and there would be work piled up when he got back from vacation, yet he still took time off, booked hotels, gassed up the car, and took us.

I never really thought about stuff like that before. My parents are both in their 80s now. I reflect on the things they did, and how quickly time has flown."

—u/cranberries87

13."My dad was the official 'taxi.' He always wanted me to get home safe, so he would come to get me at 11:30 p.m. every Friday and Saturday."

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14."My parents encouraged and supported my love of reading. They read to me, taught me how to read before I was in school, let me order books from Scholastic magazines and buy books at the book fair (one of my absolute favorite events at school), and took me on weekly trips to the library where I felt like Matilda with my wagon of books."

"They didn’t punish me when I got in trouble at school for reading during class, but just laughed it off instead (If I had bad grades, they wouldn't have laughed). I didn’t fully realize until college that not all kids read like my siblings and I did.

I'm an author now, and it’s all thanks to my parents supporting my love of reading."

—u/EmeryMoonberries

15."I did appreciate it at the time, but the fullness didn't hit me until a year later: My dad took me to get my first gender-affirming haircut before I came out to him. He didn't say anything about it other than offering to show me how to trim it myself and style it with light gel."

"Even when I did come out a year later he never made a big deal out of it.

It still makes me a little teary remembering what a relief it was."

—u/borrowed_words

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16."My brother and I loved school and needed intellectual stimulation, so every summer, my mother would make school-like activities at home for us. She worked at our school, so she had summers off with us, and we’d do themed weeks where we learned about different things."

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17."My mom is and has always been 'Mrs. Make-it-happen.' A good example of this was once when my siblings and I wanted the ultimate sleepover with all of our cousins at our house. I didn’t know at the time, but my parents were low on funds, but it didn’t stop them from giving us what we wanted."

"For lunch, my mom made the ultimate sandwich towers for all of us kids. To paint the picture, she made a table full of bologna sandwiches, egg salad sandwiches, turkey sandwiches, ham sandwiches, and PB&Js. Each type of sandwich was cut diagonally and stacked high on separate fine china dishes that were passed down from my grandma.

I can’t describe the feeling of walking downstairs and seeing that after playing video games all day."

—u/modestEmpress

18."I'm thankful my mom homeschooled me. Having been diagnosed with ADHD and getting tested for autism now as an adult, I would NOT have done well or had a good time in public school. I would have been severely bullied for being 'weird' and fallen behind academically because of my difficulties learning in the standard ways. I never thought of it as a big deal, but looking back, I am so incredibly grateful that she did that for me."

"Because of her, I got the chance to be a kid and not sit at a desk inside for hours every day. I did well in college because of all the one-on-one teaching and help I got from her and my dad.

I was able to do things that interested me and learn things that would actually be useful in life."

—u/Cyber_Security25

19."My mom grew up deprived of life's 'simple pleasures', so when she became an adult and had five kids, she made sure we got to enjoy the little simplicities. She would buy us chocolates for Valentine’s Day or celebrate St. Patrick’s Day with the green and pinching, etc."

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Which one of these memories was your favorite? What was something special your parents did that you didn't appreciate until you were an adult? Tell us in the comments or answer anonymously using the form below!

Note: Some responses have been edited for length and/or clarity.

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